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Spiritual Relationships: Partnering Through Change
By Jodie Foster
Wholesale Bags Before the harmful effects that plastic bags could have on the environment was brought to light, people were perfectly happy to use them when they went for their weekly shop. In the past we were just as guilty as the rest and we always seemed to have a mountain of plastic bags stacked up in one of the drawers in our kitchen. These days we try to be more eco-friendly and re-use Wholesale Bags where we can. Looking around the supermarket on our last visit we noticed that plenty of other people have the same idea. More people are into recycling these days and they are really in the know when it comes to environmental issues. By using reusable Wholesale Bags less plastic varieties will need to be used. There are some official figures available that prove to be quite shocking with regards to discarded plastic. It kills sea birds and sea mammals in large quantities not to mention the number of fish that it slaughters. Other marine life such as dolphins and whales can choke on it and it doesn`t fair much better on the land. Bags made from plastic can take thousands of years to decompose on landfill sites. Therefore every effort should be made to use the reusable Wholesale Bags in the future.
We have the tendency to repeat certain patterns in our relationships. It seems we take the best and the worst within ourselves and project it into the container that is our relationship. We use the relationship as a testing ground. However, when we go through changes or life transitions, it may put additional stress on the partnership by having little time for each other, being agitated and upset, etc. One person in the relationship isn?t experiencing change, they both are. If one person in the mirror changes, then the other will reflect that change. These may be positive changes or can be a stirring up of old issues that haven?t yet been healed or released. In a partnership, we partner through change as well as through stability. Life is constantly changing around us and our ability to remain flexible and grow together make for a stronger spiritual relationship. Choosing to look in the mirror of our partner, you see aspects of yourself that may be ready for transformation or release. Is there something that irritates you about your spouse? Is there a common argument that you have? Do you share similar views on many things, but have a particular stuck point on one subject? Instead of leaping first to blame or lash out at your partner, look into the mirror and see what is there for you to see. Is there something attempting to get your attention? Are you faced with this same theme over and over again? Is there a deeper issue regarding change that you?re avoiding or overlooking? Change itself can be a scary experience for some. In partnerships, change can feel threatening to the solid foundation or nest that you have built together. When one partner is undergoing deep internal changes, the other may feel left out, neglected, no longer connected and unappreciated. If that partner refuses to reflect upon the mirror that he/she is presented with, and chooses not to undergo changes as well, the mirror becomes out of balance. There is no longer a reflection of each other. One person has changed more than the other is willing to change. This is when struggle appears in the relationship. In a spiritual relationship, partners consciously work through these changes, each partner facing their inner feelings, looking in the mirror to see that which is ready for transformation. A spiritual relationship as such requires tremendous courage for both partners, trusting that the other will continue to transform and flow with the changes along with you. Any relationship requires courage and trust. Communication is a necessary aspect of partnership and courage is most valuable. Stepping up to the plate and facing yourself in the mirror everyday can be exciting, thrilling and challenging. Allowing it to be something you face together every day is powerful and is the cornerstone of a spiritual partnership. © 2005 Jodie Foster 
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